The Ultimate Guide to Honeymoon Upgrades: Tips for a Luxurious Getaway

You’re still glowing from the wedding and soon to be swooshing off on a dreamy honeymoon. But did you know there are many ways to take your trip up a notch without breaking the bank? Whether it’s an upgrade to the front of the plane or a freeculinary creation for dessert, what to ask for when — or in some cases, when not to ask for anything at all — can unlock a treasure chest of benefits. “Make sure you let it be known you’re on your honeymoon! It can unlock special treatment, especially if you’re using a travel advisor who can leverage on your behalf.”

Whether you’re organizing your honeymoon yourself or working with a pro, we are your total guide to honeymoon upgrades, from airline perks to resort surprises.

Flight Upgrades

Announce the Occasion at Check-In

Rather than checking in online, approach the airline desk and let them know that you're on your honeymoon. If there’s a chance for a free upgrade, a happy-go-lucky, recently married couple may get the nod.

Redeem Credit Card Points

Plan in advance and use reward points from your credit card to upgrade your seat. Card those wedding expenses on a travel-friendly card and accrue the thousands of miles it takes to create a first-class experience.

Buy Upgrades at Check-In

Lots of airlines sell cut-price upgrades at the desk. Flying during less busy times means you are more likely to find a deal.

Bid on Better Seats

Some companies offer email or partner-based bidding for seat upgrades on a flight. It’s usually cheaper than purchasing full price upfront.

Stick With One Airline

If you have been loyal to one airline, your frequent flyer status could help you get moved to the front of the plane.

Volunteer to Take a Different Flight

If your flight is overbooked, offer up your seat in exchange for a seat on a later flight and maybe a travel voucher as well.

Hotel Upgrades

Call When Booking

Avoid third-party websites. Call the hotel directly and say you are on your honeymoon and ask if there is anything special.

Tag the Hotel on Social Media

Posting a picture of the hotel and tagging them while you are there could have the hotel staff take notice, and ad some surprise gift to your stay.

Join Rewards Programs

If you’re staying with a chain, join their loyalty program in advance — points could mean upgrades or add-ons.

Just Ask

A complimentary bottle of Champagne or a better room is often yours for the asking at check-in — and simply asking is as good as asking nicely.

Dining Upgrades

Book Through the Concierge

When making reservations for your hotel restaurant, inquire about any honeymoon specials. They could involve a private table, or a custom menu.

Tell the Staff Your Honeymoon at the Restaurant

Call beforehand to monkey — I mean, tell — the staff that you’re there celebrating you know what. A free dessert or glass of bubbly is not unusual.

Speak Up Again On Arrival

Let your server know you’re on your honeymoon. Even if it is not standard policy, many will make an exception and go to the conversation to celebrate with you.

Activity Upgrades

Mention Your Honeymoon When Booking

Whether that be a city tour, a spa treatment or a boat ride, make it known you’re celebrating. Sellers may throw in something extra in their offer, such as a photo package or better seats.

Create a Honeymoon Registry 

Set up a registry so guests can fund experiences such as a couple’s massage or a sunset cruise. It’s a win-win for everyone.

Be Bold and Ask

Sometimes, all you need to do is ask. Whether it be seat upgrades or a welcome gift, employees are often more than willing to help make special memories for a couple.

Final Tip: The bottom line, whether you’re staying close to home or trekking continents, is to be polite and happy, and discuss in no uncertain terms you’re celebrating something special! Some honeymoon magic is still possible, with the right approach.