How to Plan a Wedding as a Scorpio: Astrologer-Backed Tips for a Deeply Personal Celebration

Scorpios, born between Oct. 23 and Nov. 21, are known as the most mysterious and horny of the zodiac. Full of emotional depth, sensitivity to the flow of life, and a tendency to wear his heart on his sleeve, he is both a mysterious and complex being, this feeler of the zodiac, whose fear of distinguishing fact from fiction can wrap him in a dark and brooding cloud. Scorpios don’t become engaged willy-nilly, and once they do decide to say yes, their wedding is a sacred expression of soul-level exchange.

“As a deep sign, it plays for keeps, and what they want their wedding to be is passion and intense transformation,” says astrologer Damon Vega. Instead of light and fantastical symbols, Scorpio goes for bold imagery and elements that evoke an emotional response. “We want rich colors, atmospheric lighting and characterful and historical venues,” says Vega.

Ahead, find astrologer-approved tips for how to plan a wedding that speaks to Scorpio’s soul, from propitious dates to eat, drink, and be married, to fashion, flowers, and beyond.

Wedding Planning Style

Actually, to a Scorpio, every single aspect of the wedding symbolizes some kind of emotion. They’ll want to express the depth and the power of their love in these deeply expressive features. “Scorpio embraces moody palettes and symbolic motifs that help guests to experience the intensity of the union,” says Vega. Imagine all that candlelight, floral tableaus and personalized vows that expose the couple’s soul connection.

They're not showy, but Scorpio does like to flaunt their connection in small ways. “They want everyone in the room to feel how strong their bond is, even if nobody is making proclamations from the rooftops,” Vega says. Writing personalized vows is a requirement, and Scorpio will love having the opportunity to spill their heart in front of their closest circle.

Best Wedding Dates for Scorpio

Although this sign can technically get married any time of year, there are some seasons that are more aligned with its spirit. The best dates are Scorpio season (October 23–November 21), Pisces season (February 19–March 20), Taurus season (April 20–May 20), and the Pisces full moon landing between August 23 and September 22. Early summer dates, which could feel too airy or casual for Scorpio, they might forego.

Venue Vibe

You don't often see Scorpio marriages in the thatched-cottage room. “Scorpio, ruled by Pluto and Mars, adores spaces that are cinematic and dramatic,” says Vega. Perfect settings may include botanical gardens at sunset, Gothic-looking estates, or old mansions with low light. Water features, such as fountains or a misty pond, also correspond with this sign’s element.

Décor Details

This sign is all about sexy glam. “A Scorpio wedding will be drawn to a dark palette with a romantic feel—burgundy, plum, deep navy, and black,” says astrologer Ivy Moone. Textured layers, moody candlelight and curated tablescapes contribute to the emotional ambiance. Lighting is key — dimmed glows, uplighting all help to sculpt the room’s tone.

Wedding Cake

Control freaks that they are, Scorpios even smite the cake. “This sign is attracted to sexy design, black and white cakes with a clean finish or a textural ruffle will satisfy the craving,” adds Moone. “Maybe a Scorpio likes high-flavor combinations like raspberry ganache or espresso with cardamom.

Food and Beverage

For Scorpio, it’s an experience of taste. “They will want to trend toward rich and flavorful dishes with a lot of sensual appeal,” Moone says. Look for oysters at cocktail hour, spiced entrees such as lamb or mushroom ravioli, and indulgent dessers such as a dark chocolate torte. For beverages, big reds and spicy house cocktails will be in order.

Fashion and Beauty

Scorpio is probably the most likely of all signs to choose an outfit that reeks of magnetism and mystery. “They adore a dramatic silhouette, say a curve-hugging dress with statement lace or illusion details,” says Vega. So, groomsmen can opt for custom made dark suits or tuxedos with a striking accessory. In terms of beauty, anticipate smoky eyes, defined liner and a moody lip.

Ideal Honeymoon Destinations

After the emotional high of the wedding, Scorpio needs privacy, and romance to recharge. “They’ll feel most at home where water and earth come together—think tropical cliffs or deserted beaches,” says Moone. Saran, the food stylist, suggests a trip to Kauai, with its lush landscapes and views of the ocean, where the chef couple can find the healing solitude they are seeking.