The Complete Guide to Bridal Shower Invitation Wording

Planning a bridal shower involves a lot of decisions, including the choice of venue and theme, games to play and guests to invite. But after all those ins and outs are confirmed, the next question will be the bride-to-be’s nearest and dearest to invite to the shindig. Don’t know what to write on the invites? Don’t fret — we’ve got you covered.

Before the writing starts allow yourself to send the invitations four to six weeks out. Though digital invites are a good option for in-home birthday parties, they are generally a no-go in a wedding invite checklist, mostly because they’re tacky for a wedding — and especially when older guests are involved. Make sure that you and the various co-hosts are aligned on the details of the event before you get started.

Below, a full guide on what to include in a bridal shower invitation, plus 18 examples of invite wording to suit any type of bash.

How to Word a Bridal Shower Invitation

Name of the Bride

Have her name splashed across the top so everyone knows who the special lady is. If it’s a joint or co-ed shower, include the names of both people.

Date, Time and Location

Clearly state the day, time and complete address of your event with adequate sized font. “This has the distinct advantage of spelling out the month, thereby eliminating any possible confusion.” See also: If you have guests using a GPS, an address is necessary in order to prevent getting lost.

RSVP Information

Indicate an RSVP deadline and have rsvps sent to a name, phone number and/or email address.

Name(s) of the Host(s)

It’s nice to acknowledge who is hosting. If it’s a group project, just a nice general one like “Hosted by her loving friends” suffice.

Registry Information

Indicate where guest of honor is registered. You can link directly or just mention the stores. Or, just simply tell everyone to check a wedding website for details.

18 Bridal Shower Invitation Wording Ideas – Samples And Tips

Traditional Wording

• "Please join us for a Bridal Shower in honor of [Name]."
• “Let’s fill [Name] with love!
• “Join us in celebrating [Name] one last time before the big knot.”
• Tagline: Share in our joy as we party in honour of [Name]'s upcoming wedding!

Modern and Playful Wording

• "A toast to the future Mrs.!"
• “Someone help this Miss turn into a Mrs.”
• "Pop the bubbly! [Name]'s getting married."
• "Please come celebrate with us as [Name] embarks on the next chapter.

Humorous Wording

• "Guess what? She said yes! Let's party."
• “Free drink, good food, even [Name]? Count us in."
• “[Name] at last got the ring — see the sparkle in person.”

Themed Shower Wording

• “You’re cordially invited to a tea party bridal shower in honor of [Name]. Dress to impress!"
• “Boots, brunch, and bubbly for [Name]’s big day.
• “A stylish lingerie shower to honor [Name] as she prepares for her vows.”

Surprise Shower Wording

• "Shhh! It's a surprise! Please celebrate [Name] at a bridal shower.
• "Don’t spoil the fun! Don’t say anything and come to a surprise party.

Couples' Shower Wording

• "Bridal Shower Honoring [Name] and [Name] Whose hearts will soon join in two!
• “Shower for two: [Name] & [Name] want you to come.”

Regardless of the vibe or theme, the shower invitation is the first step in setting the tone for your bridal shower. With these templates — which include text messages and email invites — and these tips, you’ll write an invite that feels personal, clear, and just right for the event.